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Intentions Over Expectations: A Grounded Way to Enter the New Year
The New Year doesn’t have to begin with pressure or unrealistic expectations. This piece explores how choosing intentions over expectations helps Black women enter the year with honesty, boundaries, and peace—without abandoning themselves in the process.
Haile Pollard-Durodola
1 day ago4 min read


When Grief Shows Up During the Holidays: Making Space for What Hurts
December has a way of bringing both light and loss to the surface. For many Black women, the season can reignite old wounds — from family estrangement and burnout to unspoken grief and emotional fatigue. This gentle guide offers ways to honor your emotions, protect your peace, and find grounding through rituals that remind you: you’re not going backward — you’re moving through with grace.
Haile Pollard-Durodola
Dec 12, 20254 min read


When Love Isn’t the Problem but Exhaustion Is: Understanding Parent Burnout
You love your children—but lately, love feels heavy. When exhaustion replaces joy and survival becomes your daily rhythm, that’s not failure; it’s parent burnout. For Black women carrying generational strength and modern pressure, this blog offers gentle ways to reclaim rest, restore balance, and reconnect with who you are beyond caregiving.
Haile Pollard-Durodola
Dec 9, 20254 min read


Letting Go of “I Got It”: Healing the Generational Fear of Vulnerability
For generations, Black women have been taught to stay strong, even when it hurts. This piece explores how hyperindependence forms, why vulnerability feels unsafe, and how healing begins the moment we allow ourselves to be seen.
Haile Pollard-Durodola
Dec 3, 20254 min read
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